08-17-2018, 12:19 AM
(08-16-2018, 02:02 PM)CatMan Wrote:(08-16-2018, 01:53 PM)DarkPlouf Wrote:Quote:Its very confusing. we have to play games, resist, detract from being too nice, too friendly, too jovial, too receptive to make them want us and by then tbh I've given up caring so much and yet then they want you.You know I think it's not that much complicated...I think it's a matter of looks AND status. I know people hate to hear that but it's true. You can get away with doing EVERYTHING wrong, but still get chicks just because of looks and status.
That's a reality I think isn't popular but more true than people choose to believe.
Looks matter, sorry. I see how girls drool over "hot guys", it's clear as day. No sub to make your looks into a "hot guy" to my knowledge, sadly. No PUA program can do that either. So it's never talked about, or if it is, it's importance is undercut greatly. I've seen often how girls react to "hot guys", I'm 100% positive they like hotness just as much as we do. It's reality.
Status too. Sometimes I wish I could overlook the hot girls into me that are gold digging or status chasing...it'd make things so much easier for me on the surface. But, I'd always have the nagging feeling they don't care about me and only want me for my $$$ and status. I don't want that, I already have enough issues with my own feeling of attractiveness and self esteem in regards to women etc. Shitty situation if I did that. I bought DMSI to somehow "make" me sexually attractive so I can attract them naturally, but I agree I have severe doubts it can actually do so and still don't understand HOW the sub makes you sexy to women you find sexy. Still don't understand that process at all, makes it hard to really get behind, never mind the results so far after over two years of using it. We'll see...wait for V3.3 now I guess nothing else to do.
Agree with Catman looks do matter. I remember when I gave PUA a bash years ago. I winged with a tall guy who looked like a professional football player. He would walk into a bar and women were already checking him out. He was about as interesting as a dog having a shit. Yet girls would go home with him.
Grooming goes along way. In the country I am in looks and status do matter I think SM amplifies my looks and status to a point where I can laid with girls relativily easy. One thing in my favour is that I am an ex pat and this helps immensely as I standout amongst the crowds.