05-30-2018, 07:33 AM
(This post was last modified: 05-30-2018, 07:34 AM by MasterEnki.)
@Shannon
I have a practical ‘game plan’ now. Get to know women first, and try build a connection first (I guess this means, with them, going to cafes, beach, sharing hobbies, etc). And let them make the moves / escalate (It is my understanding that AYP manifestations will escalate, and that she will make the moves).
There are still a few things I’m confused about,
Could you please expand on these points.
In what ways is my perfect FWB (primary manifestation of AYP FWB) likely to hurt me?
Why would losing my virginity to my perfect FWB be unwise?
I’m currently 130 days in using AYP FWB (as of today). I started AYP FWB in mid Jan 2018.
I chose ‘Perfect FWB’ (instead of other AYPs) because I thought that it would be the option with the least amount of drama / least amount of issues.
I value my independence greatly, and want to live separately from women, and focus my dating for weekends only. I’m naturally an introvert, and like to regularly have quiet time by myself, to meditate, to read, and relax.
Though, if losing my virginity to my ‘perfect FWB’ has hidden and dangerous consequences, then I may reconsider (and try another AYP), if those consequences are severe enough.
Thanks
I have a practical ‘game plan’ now. Get to know women first, and try build a connection first (I guess this means, with them, going to cafes, beach, sharing hobbies, etc). And let them make the moves / escalate (It is my understanding that AYP manifestations will escalate, and that she will make the moves).
There are still a few things I’m confused about,
Quote:In my opinion, trying to lose your virginity to a FWB in this day and age is unwise
Quote:That means she will be less likely to hurt you than a FWB, in my experience.
Could you please expand on these points.
In what ways is my perfect FWB (primary manifestation of AYP FWB) likely to hurt me?
Why would losing my virginity to my perfect FWB be unwise?
Quote:If I were in your shoes, I would be doing AYPSL or AYPRL
I’m currently 130 days in using AYP FWB (as of today). I started AYP FWB in mid Jan 2018.
I chose ‘Perfect FWB’ (instead of other AYPs) because I thought that it would be the option with the least amount of drama / least amount of issues.
I value my independence greatly, and want to live separately from women, and focus my dating for weekends only. I’m naturally an introvert, and like to regularly have quiet time by myself, to meditate, to read, and relax.
Though, if losing my virginity to my ‘perfect FWB’ has hidden and dangerous consequences, then I may reconsider (and try another AYP), if those consequences are severe enough.
Thanks