08-01-2014, 04:09 AM
Telling her you don't like games probably killed the good energy she had, or at least showed her you weren't "fun". Games are fine, so long as you're directing them. The idea (I think) is that you have to vibe with the woman. Getting her to "fall in line" or "put her in her place" are all so very forceful. A woman is already under tremendous pressure in society to BE/DO something. What she needs (I believe) is to be allowed to be free, that's where the man comes in.
Also, something that's helping me is not to consider ANY woman hot, amazing, etc. She's either "cute" or "ok".
I had an instance at work where this guy and me were talking. He said something about the princess diaries, and I looked behind him and there was this hot girl (yes, lol, hot) and I'm like "Mmmm, princess diaries..."
He took the cue and looked behind him. When he saw the girl and looked back at me, he was CRAZY. Wide-eyed, excited "Holy sh*t man!" he says "Do you see that girl??"
"Yeah." I say "But hey, are you going to cut that sheet for me?"
He's like "Yeah, but that girl! She's hot, right?"
"She's ok," I say (the girl, interestingly, looks over at me RIGHT THEN) "You know what's beautiful though? This sheet! I mean, just look at it! and when it's cut and in place, it'll be even BETTER!" lol.
Like that.
Also, something that's helping me is not to consider ANY woman hot, amazing, etc. She's either "cute" or "ok".
I had an instance at work where this guy and me were talking. He said something about the princess diaries, and I looked behind him and there was this hot girl (yes, lol, hot) and I'm like "Mmmm, princess diaries..."
He took the cue and looked behind him. When he saw the girl and looked back at me, he was CRAZY. Wide-eyed, excited "Holy sh*t man!" he says "Do you see that girl??"
"Yeah." I say "But hey, are you going to cut that sheet for me?"
He's like "Yeah, but that girl! She's hot, right?"
"She's ok," I say (the girl, interestingly, looks over at me RIGHT THEN) "You know what's beautiful though? This sheet! I mean, just look at it! and when it's cut and in place, it'll be even BETTER!" lol.
Like that.